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This may sound surprising to you, but
there is no such thing as perfect compatibility
in a relationship because no two people have the same nature.
The sooner you understand this simple truth, the better your relationships.
So what should I do?
Assess their nature.
Give them their space.
Your relationship will blossom.
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As the poet Kahlil Gibran says about an ideal marriage:
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Stand near together but not too near together, for the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak and cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.